Career Guidance for Young People: A Retrospective
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When you’re young, the pressure to have it all figured out can feel overwhelming. School systems push for decisions early, social media showcases overnight successes, and everyone seems to be asking: “So, what are you going to do with your life?”
Here is a truth we do not say enough: most people do not have it figured out at 18—or even at 28 or 38. And here I am at 48, still learning and discovering my own path.
Career clarity is not a race. It is a process of exploration, reflection, and growth.
Looking Back: The Lies We Believed
When I think about the advice given to young people, it often sounds like this:
“Pick the right college major and your life will fall into place.”
“Just follow in my footsteps and you will be fine.”
“Choose wisely; there are certain professions that are stable and secure.”
“There is one perfect career path for you.”
In reality, career paths are winding, messy, and full of pivots. Most adults I coach did not end up where they thought they would.
Career detours are not failures. They are opportunities to grow, learn, and discover what truly fits your life and your values.
What We Wish We Knew at 20
From working with hundreds of professionals, here is what many wish someone had told them when they were younger:
You do not have to know your “forever” job right now.
You can try something, and decide it is not a good fit.
You learn by doing, not just thinking.
It is okay to change your mind.
It is okay to not have it figured out.
It is okay to feel lost. Clarity comes through exploration.
The sooner we normalize uncertainty, the sooner young adults can approach their careers with curiosity rather than pressure.
The Real Work is Inner Work
Career success is not just about resumes or LinkedIn profiles. It is about self-awareness. Ask yourself:
What am I curious about?
What environments energize me?
What brings me joy and provides meaning and fulfillment?
What makes me feel useful, excited, or proud?
These questions point to your real career clues—not just job titles.
What You Can Do Now
If you are feeling stuck, here are some actionable ways to move forward:
Talk to people: Not just about their jobs, but about how they got there and the hurdles they overcame.
Try small experiments: Volunteer, shadow, intern, or freelance to explore different industries.
Reflect on your experiences: Notice what felt energizing and what drained you.
Be kind to yourself: Confusion is not failure. It is the beginning of clarity. Give yourself space and permission to ask questions.
Curiosity, courage, and the right support are more important than a perfectly defined plan.
Moving From Paralysis to Momentum
You do not need a five-year plan. You need curiosity, courage, and guidance to explore and experiment. That is exactly why I created the Career Launch program—to help young adults and career explorers move from paralysis to momentum.
If you are ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward, you are not alone—and you are right on time.
